The relationship app for after the first date.
AfterFirst, the app for after the first date. Log your dates, gather every photo into a Photo Book, get gift reminders two weeks ahead, and lean on a coach that always asks before it sends anything. Dating three months or married ten years, it helps you keep showing up for each other.
App Store Free to start.
Pro from $4.99/mo, 7 day free trial.
Everything your relationship needs
One beautiful home for your dates, your memories, and the little things that keep love growing.
Count every day together
Count your days together, your days married, or both. Married mode lets you show how long you have been married, how long you have been together, or the two side by side, with countdowns to anniversaries, birthdays, and trips.
A coach that asks first
Date night ideas, gift suggestions tailored to your partner, and personal advice when you hit a rough patch. The coach now asks before it sends anything, then sends only what it needs to answer. Turn it off anytime in Settings.
Gift reminders two weeks ahead
Save your partner's favorites, likes, and gift ideas. Reminders arrive 14 and 7 days before the big day, with ideas you can still get in time.
Every date, in one Photo Book
Your date photos gathered by year into a keepsake you can print or save as a PDF, ready for your anniversary.
Track every moment
Log every date with ratings, photos, and categories. Daily streaks, a private journal, a monthly Wrapped recap, weekly challenges, and nearly 100 conversation prompts across 8 categories keep you growing together.
Start free. Go Pro when you're ready.
AfterFirst is free to download and use. AfterFirst Pro is a real subscription that unlocks everything, and both plans start with a 7 day free trial.
Free
- 5 dates, events, gifts & journal entries
- 1 AI coaching message a day
- 1 free theme
Pro Monthly
- 20 AI coaching messages a day
- Unlimited dates, events, gifts & journal entries
- Up to 20 photos per date
- Printable Photo Book
- Date bucket list
- All 10 themes
- Full prompt library
- Growth & conflict tools
- Backup export & import
Pro Yearly
- Everything in Pro Monthly
- Half the price of paying monthly
- One simple yearly payment
Payment is charged to your Apple ID when you confirm the purchase, or when the free trial ends. Subscriptions automatically renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings > Apple ID > Subscriptions. Any unused part of a free trial ends when you buy a subscription.
Private by design
Your dates, journal entries, partner preferences, and photos stay on your device. No account, no ads, no tracking. The AI Coach is optional: it asks before its first use, then sends only what it needs to answer. Nothing is stored on our server or used for training, and you can turn the coach off anytime in Settings.